In all the rush to get ready for your wedding, it's easy to get stressed and overwhelmed with all that must be accomplished. You're so busy trying to create the perfect wedding that you're turning into a perfect wreck! Why don't the two of you take a day off from wedding plans and just do something fun for the day? Go for a picnic or watch the sunset. Go to a place where no hint of wedding plans can intrude. Before you let yourself use the excuse that there is still so much to do, rest assured they'll all still be there tomorrow, just waiting for your attention. One day of having fun and being romanced won't kill you. You might even have a blast. This will be good practice for when you are already married. To keep the romance alive between you, even after you're married means that you do stuff that's just for you every now and then. Take the time to watch a movie without the kids. Make sure there's at least one day of no work, no phone calls and no other concerns but how to spend your day together. If you're worried about the expense, then keep it simple. There are any number of fun things to do that won't break your bank. You don't even have to go very far; you can just turn down the lights and watch some favorite videos together. Don't let the trimmings distract you from the heart of the matter. Take the time to savor each other's presence. The whole reason you're getting married is to celebrate being together; so make time to be together and just enjoy each other's company. Remember: not everybody is blessed to find their match. |
