Typically the topic of verbal crutches is something that people are coached on when they are improving their group presentation skills. Verbal crutches are those little connector words that all of us use from time to time. These are the ums, ahs, and even in the case of one candidate I interviewedfabulous, that we unconsciously toss in while were thinking about the next sentence. Let me tell youthis will KILL and I meanRUIN your chances for a follow up interview, especially if your first interview is a phone interview. As the interviewer on a phone interview, I have nothing else to focus on other than the sound of your voice. If that sound is constantly interrupted by an umm, or a ya know, Im really going to notice it. If the job Im considering hiring you for has a lot of phone work involved, Im not going to subject the person on the other end of the phone to your poor verbal abilities. At this point, I dont care if you are the most qualified person on paperyoure out of the running because your message is being lost in a sea of these verbal crutches. Its a very silly way to get eliminated. Heres how you clean up your act. First, you need to either ask your friends very seriously and honestly if you are a verbal crutch offender. Explain to them how important this is in your job search, and unless they want to hear you whine for an additional six months about not finding a new jobthey should help you. Verbal crutches are bad habits that can become more apparent when youre in stressful situations like job interviews, but are probably apparent when your guard is down like when youre hanging out with friends. They dont just appear when you pick up the phone for an interview. Your other option is to record yourself while you practice for the interview. This can be trickier because you will of course know that youre taping and will make more of an effort to clean up your act, but it could work. Another option is to just make a conscious effort throughout the day to listen to what you are really saying. Too many times I find that if Im not completely engaged in what Im saying and am not truly in the moment that I will start umming and ahhing as my brain searches for the next coherent thought. When I focus on the message Im trying to convey, my speech patterns clean up immediately and Im back on track. I sound more professional and people have a tendency to not tune me out because theyre tired of trying to sort out the wheat from the umm and ahh chaff. So bottom line, if this could be a problem for youfix it NOW! Make an effort everytime you say something during the day to really listen to what you are sayingdont tune out! If you want the interviewer to pay attention to youyou need to pay attention to you. For some people, this will be a hard habit to break, but it is well worth the effort, I guarantee it. |
