You know the pattern you want to do something, achieve something, move forward in your life and every time you think about it the little voice inside your head says I cant. Youre placing an obstacle in your way (sometimes called a self-limiting belief). It might be a personal issue I cant get fit. Perhaps its a creative matter I cant sing. Or maybe its to do with your business I cant cold call. When coaching, and a client says she cant do something, Ill ask what stops you? Well, you can start to experience the power of coaching whenever you fall into that pattern by asking yourself whats stopping me? To stop yourself you must be putting something in your own way. Im assured, for example, that everybody can sing so whats stopping those of us who say were tone deaf? Perhaps its years of being told at school youre just not musical, after you didnt take to the recorder naturally at the age of 5. You may find that simply by reflecting on this question the answers become apparent. Or you may find that your NLP Life Coach is the best person to explore this issue with you. Theres no need to be stuck and allow those dread words I cant to hold you back. Answering this question could be the key to opening up your life and finding your purpose. So go for it. What stops you? |
